What the Future Holds for Me

Updated: Mar 22


It has been quite a while since I last posted. And I’m so sorry for that but in case you’ve been living under a rock with no internet access, the world’s been a bit chaotic. My world was flipped upside down a bit in 2019 when I had 2 massive back surgeries. But throughout the last couple of years, I’ve had a bunch of revelations and have really l


ooked deep in myself and done some work. I’ve spent a large portion of the time rediscovering my voice, my confidence, my strength, my drive, and what I want for my future life.

I see and hear people talk about imposter syndrome but I never really felt like I experienced that. I went through some major personal things which led me to question myself and what I had to offer. Yes, this Amazon Goddess does struggle with confidence at times. I may be a Leo but I still would second guess myself before sharing a post online. There was a little voice in my head telling me that people didn’t care what I had to say, even though I was selling out virtual classes and a full schedule of mentor students. When I share posts online, I would type out my own thoughts to put with it but would delete them, over and over again. I’d just share the image as is and let it speak for itself. But I’m slowly learning to ignore that little voice. I don’t want to sound like I’m bragging but people do care what I have to say and do want to hear my thoughts and input on different subjects. I am going to try and contribute more of my own thoughts so you’re going to start to see more of that and you’ll get even more of a look into my personal views. This feels more authentic and true to the image I want people to see of me.

With that being said, I wanted to share my plans for where my focus is going to be more directed so you can know what to expect. I am always receiving tons of amazing feedback from my fans, students, clients, etc and with that knowledge, I’m going to be concentrating and putting much more energy into more than just being a Pro Dom, not that I don’t enjoy my work in that aspect.

Hypnosis

From hypnotherapy to erotic hypnosis, I believe there is such power held in the mind and I love exploring that. I’ve helped so many folks with a variety of life situations they wanted to improve through hypnosis. I’ve heard that it’s so rare to find an authentic HypnoDomme from many people and they’re just so thankful they came across my website. I’ve worked with many individuals and couples to bring more excitement and passion than ever before in their sex lives. It brings me such joy to be able to lead others to live a more fulfilling life. I’ve had some truly incredible clients that I’ve used hypnosis with to achieve the “impossible” with their fantasies. Whether it’s through in-person sessions, virtual meetings, or audio files, I get such a high knowing that I’ve been able to provide something to people that their lives had been lacking before. The look of sheer bliss after coming out of trance is one of the most satisfying things for me to see as a hypnotist. There’s such a calm and relaxed energy that can’t be matched by anything else and I’m really looking forward to exploring this more with tons of other folks.



Content Creation

I’m going to be shooting and releasing way more content as well. I’m going to be showing a side of myself that really hasn’t been seen before. My vision for the future of my content is raw, authentic, and intimate views of my real kinky relationships. This doesn’t mean that I won’t be posting session pictures or videos and other kinds of posts on my social media, OF, and clip sites. But rather my focus will be more of my genuine Dominant self and enjoying my life. I have been shooting sooooo much content with both of my partners and it’s just oozing with sexiness, if I do say so myself. Sometimes they will be POV and sometimes not.

My OnlyFans will now consist of:

  • My kinky private personal play and intimate times with my switch boyfriend/bull and my girlfriend/ submissive

  • My real time session fun with my pets and partners

  • Educational videos and content

  • Erotic hypnosis audios and videos (one of a kind) - be cautious…it can be highly addictive

  • Photos and videos of me and my kink family at the best events in the country and beyond.

That’s of course besides the other 300 sexy posts that have come before this….

Education

I’m still going to continue teaching virtually as well as slowly booking in-person classes locally and events. I am still aware that a pandemic is raging so I am being selective with what in-person events I attend. I have really enjoyed teaching online because it’s allowed me to reach people all over the world! It’s been such an important part of my teaching because it shows me how people do kink in different areas of the world. I’m going to start offering more intensives and longer courses. The inaugural class series is called A Complete Guide to Dominance. The first lesson is on April 21, 2022 with an option prerequisite lesson on April 14, 2022. This will be an 8-week course filled with all the knowledge you need to become the Dominant you’ve always dreamed of. There are 2 advanced courses that can be added on to the 8 weeks. You can view all the ticketing options on the event listing.

I am accepting more intimacy, kink and/or BDSM mentor students as well. Part of the reason I became an educator in this community is because what we do isn’t inherently safe and I like to make sure people have the skills and knowledge to enjoy all kink has to offer, as safely as possible. I have spots for individuals and couples (both monogamous and non-monogamous). I know that it can seem scary to reach out for help especially with such vulnerable topics but we are here for such a short time, so why not get all that you can out of this life? I have worked with tons of couples and individuals in the intimacy realm completely outside of kink and BDSM so I don’t want anyone to feel like they have to be kinky in order to reach out to me. I have heard it all and work hard to create a warm and welcoming environment so people feel safe to open up and express their truest desires.

Elysium Dungeon

Within the last year, I moved my dungeon from the suburbs of Philadelphia to Delaware. The space is such a huge improvement and I’m so proud of the work myself and Parker put into it. It is stunning and everyone who visits says they are beyond impressed. The space is available to rent for a variety of purposes: professional sessions, video and/or photo shoots, small private parties/events, couples, etc. Everyone that has used our dungeon has expressed nothing but positivity and gratitude. We have just about anything you could want: bondage equipment & toys, impact implements, domestic space, sexy bedroom, an endless amount of toys, and so much more. We are not offering in person tours at this time but if you’d like to take a virtual tour, please email elsyiumhideaway@gmail.com.

Kink, Intimacy, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast

This was something that Parker and I started at the beginning of the pandemic and really loved it. It gave us a chance to connect with others when we had no way of doing so safely. We have taken such a long hiatus but we are ready to come back and bring you more episodes! While we are still going to have guests on the show, we will have more episodes where it’s just talking organically about different topics. If you have any thoughts and ideas of what you’d like to hear us talk about, please leave a comment below or email kicloungepodcast@gmail.com because we would love to hear from you and give that people what they want!

Sessions

I am still offering virtual and real time pro Dom sessions but will be a bit more selective with what I take on. I want sessions that give energy back and feel transformative. I don’t want to just be a kink dispenser when someone is horny. That is not what fills my cup and I’m very fortunate to be in a position where I can do this.

I have both a male and female partner available to join me in session, real time or virtual, and that’s certainly added an extra level of fun and excitement. My man and I have been having so much fun doing cuck sessions so if you’ve always wanted to be shown what a beta bitch you are, fill out my contact form to serve. Cuck sessions with my female partner are also available and serve a whole different level of humiliation.

I’m also going to try and start doing more tour dates, as safely as possible of course. It won’t be to the same level that I was traveling before COVID but I miss my clients on the road! This will also include taking select sessions at kink events that I travel to.

Thank you for taking the time to read through this update. I hope you continue to buy my videos and watch my content, learn from me, and so much more. I’ve had people asking how they can support me so if you are wondering, you can tip me on OnlyFans, through Cash App, ($hypnoticblonde is my cashtag), or sending me thoughtful gifts that I actually really want and need for my businesses. If you are tipping through Cash App, I just ask that you please only leave an emoji in the comment section.

I am just feeling really grateful for all the support I receive in my work and outside of it. Life isn’t always easy but I love what I do and I can’t imagine doing anything else. My partners are also so amazing and I feel like an incredibly lucky woman. Okay, I’ll stop gushing now.

I look forward to contributing more and interacting with all you wonderful people!