Kinky Finds on Amazon
Updated: May 25
Let’s put the spice back into life! Whether you’re brand new to kink play or are a seasoned veteran, there’s something for you on this list. I’ve scoured Amazon and found some of my favorite toys that I recommend to people; from blindfolds to gags to impact implements and everything in between. Every time I teach, people always ask for my suggestions for toys and gear so I thought I’d create a list that ranges from light to more extreme fun.
Turn it into a fun date night with your partner and browse the list together, maybe you’ll discover a new interest that sparks tantalizing conversation. There’s tons of suggestions I have that are great even if you want to explore solo.
These are in no specific order of importance or favorites…
1. Mindfold Blackout Blindfold
Blindfolds are always really great because they heighten the senses of the person wearing it. It’s also great for new tops who may be nervous because even if you’re fumbling around and don’t really know what you’re doing, they can’t see you! I love this particular blindfold because it has space for your eyes to be open while still remaining totally blacked out. It’s also great for people who have lash extensions or wear makeup so it doesn’t smudge! There’s also padding so it’s nice and comfortable for long term wear. Cleaning Tip: Spray with Cavacide and allow time to air dry completely before next use.
2. Ten Head Wartenberg Pinwheel
This toy is really amazing for sensation play and sending goosebumps up and down your partner’s body or your own! What I really like about wartenberg pinwheels is that you can create a number of sensations based on the pressure you apply; from light and ticklish to deep almost cutting the skin. For more advanced players, combine this with a violet wand for some electrifying fun! Tip: have your partner hold their hand out while blindfolded while applying light pressure with the pinwheel and enjoy their reactions. Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes carefully since it is very sharp.
These adjustable clamps are perfect for someone who has sensitive nipples and can’t sustain a lot of pressure and pain to them. I’ve encountered people who don’t typically have a lot of sensation in their nipples that really enjoy this set. And others who already receive a lot of pleasure in that area of the body reach new heights of ecstasy once the vibrations are turned on. Tip: put the clamps at the base of the nipples then use your finger or tongue in an up and down motion on the tip for added tingles. Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes.
This is a really great beginner set but keep in mind that depending on the attachments you use, the feeling may be more intense. Please make sure you are educating yourself on the proper use of this toy as it can be dangerous and on the edgier side of play. This set allows you to flirt with the lines between pleasure and pain. The comb attachment is my favorite, especially to drag from the base of the neck all the way up to the scalp. It will send tingles down your spine in all the best ways! Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes on attachments..
The price of these paddles is excellent for the quality of the item. Silicone allows for easy cleaning while packing quite a punch. These paddles are great for impact play all over the body but genital strikes are a lot of fun. Remember: you can use all the sides to provide different sensations, even the handle can be used! Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes.
The cool thing about this item is it’s great for testing someone’s ability to fill their mouth. And it’s also beginner-friendly because without a strap wrapped around the head, it’s easier for someone to spit out if it becomes too much. The material it’s made of makes it super easy to clean too. Tip: place bets to see how many pumps it takes to fill your partner’s mouth up before they can’t take anymore.
Cleaning Tip: Use a Cavicide wipe and make sure to get all the crevices and let air dry completely before next use.
7. Cupping Set
Cupping has many therapeutic benefits such as stress relief, toxin removal, pain relief, and much more. Because it’s a manual cupping set, it allows for more control of how intense the suction can be. Even with its many benefits, don’t be fooled because this can be an intense punishment for those mouthy bottoms. Cleaning Tip: Use a Cavicide wipes on cups.
This set is so beautiful and soft, lined with fur. When you open it, you can smell the fresh leather so be sure to inhale deeply, taking a nice whiff. You’ll receive wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, a collar, and leash in a lovely leather bag for safe keeping. Parker Leigh receives compliments every time she wears them. This is really great for when you want to feel owned or have your partner feeling like they are yours. Available in black, purple, and red. Sizes small and large. Cleaning Tip: Spray Cavacide on fur side and for leather side use Leather Honey Care Kit after every 3rd use.
These tend to be a favorite among beginners because of the budded end which makes it more difficult to cause any damage to the urethra. The design tends to feel a lot more pleasurable for those on the receiving end. There’s tons of sounding sets out there but this particular set tends to work the best for all genitalia. Please be sure you are educating yourself of the proper sounding techniques and sterilization process as you are playing with very sensitive tissue. Cleaning Tip: Place in UV Cleaner or autoclave. If you don't have either of them, boil them in water on the stove for 3-5 minutes. Place them on a sterile surface and let them cool off before next use.
This stand is extremely sturdy and provides comfort with the beautiful black leather sling while also giving a dungeon vibe. The sling itself and leg straps can be adjusted depending on someone’s height. It can be fun to switch it up and be in the air while staying comfortable and safe. You can also remove the sling and just use the stand as a suspension point for rope bondage either with a partner or solo. Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes and make sure to get all the crevices.
11. Liberator Portable Bondage Mat with Cuffs
One of the really exciting things about this item is that you can turn your space into a kinky palace when you can’t keep bondage furniture in your house at all times. It folds up and can hide under a bed or in a closet and looks just like a massage table once it’s in the bag. The portable bondage mat allows for nearly unlimited positions! It’s equipped with 16 reinforced D-rings, perfect for holding down anyone who squirms. Comes with portable play mat, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, thigh cuffs, blindfold, and storage bag. Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes and make sure to get all the crevices.
12. Fleshlight Gag
This toy is great for humiliation play because it turns you or your partner into an object rather than a participant in pleasure. You can lock this on for more predicament so it’s unable to be removed. The hard interior ring of the gag will keep lips and teeth pried open! Some fun words to say while using this gag could be: “such a pretty hole for me to use,” “your mouth is just an object for me to fuck,” or “I’m going to fill your pretty little mouthcunt and you can’t do anything about it.” Please make sure you have non-verbal safe gestures in place. Cleaning Tip: Take out mouth hole and place in dishwasher or wash with antibacterial soap. Use Cavicide wipes on the rest of the gag.
A lot of people really like the idea of being on a St. Andrew’s cross or having their hands restrained above their hand and with these cuffs, you can do so in a more comfortable manner. The gripping handles allow for the person cuffed to squeeze if something in the scene is particularly tough. The design of these are really great for those that experience carpal tunnel or other issues with their hands or wrists. Cleaning Tip: Spray them with Cavacide and wipe them down.
All of the options are really great CBT toys to add to your collection. These are really sturdy and don’t bend or mold so you can have your partner doing tasks and move around while it stays firmly in place. It creates its own predicament bondage without any fancy attachments or bondage skills required. Imagine being able to tease and torment your partner’s genitals without them blocking you or trying to stop you! Cleaning Tip: Spray them with Cavacide and wipe it down. Make sure it's dry before next use.
15. Gear Ties
I wanted to include these on this list because they’re a really great tool to have for bondage that doesn’t require a ton of skills. It’s also easier for people to work with that may not have a lot of mobility in their hands required for knots. All you need to do is give a little twisting motion and voila! your partner is restrained. Do not use these for suspensions as they are only for quick floor or bed bondage. Cleaning Tip: Toss in the dishwasher or wipe with a Cavacide wipe.
16. Leather Sensory Deprivation Hood
With this specific hood, there’s a few different options for fun. There’s also the ability to add locks to it, preventing your bottom from removing it on their own. One of the exciting aspects of sensory deprivation is muffling the sounds with a hood so you can take away multiple senses at the same time. It’s all padded for extra comfort around the eyes, ears, and mouth. There is a collar attached to the hood which can be locked as well. Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes and make sure to get all the crevices. Use Leather Honey Care Kit after every 3rd use.
17. Peerless Double Locking Handcuffs
There’s 6 inches between these cuffs which is great for bigger bodied people as well as providing some comfort in the shoulders and arms. This set of cuffs comes with two keys and is a double locking set. The reason you want to make sure and get double locking cuffs is because if someone is moving around while restrained, it prevents the cuffs from tightening further and doing any damage. Peerless is a reputable brand and one that I would recommend. Cleaning Tip: Spray them with Cavacide and wipe them down.
This throne is comfortable for all day oral play! Don’t you just love “forced” oral worship and smothering? I know I do! This piece of furniture is great for any gender despite its name. There’s an adjustable head sling inside which provides for less strain on someone's neck. This is really amazing for rimjobs too! Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes and make sure to get all the crevices. Use Leather Honey Care Kit after every 3rd use.
19. Labia Clamp
There’s a few different options available that range in intensity. This toy is really great to spread the vulva allowing for more access for pleasure so it doesn’t have to be a painful experience. However, if you tighten it, you’ll probably be making your bottom whimper in pain allowing the sadist in you to smile. The material allows for easy cleaning. To add more sensation and temperature play, try running the toy under cold or warm water first. Cleaning Tip: Spray with Cavacide and wipe it down. Make sure it is completely dry before next use.
20. Chastity Cage Harness with Silicone Butt Plug
This piece is so beautiful and is perfect for temporary chastity play rather than long term use. It comes with a removable butt plug so you can choose to fill up yourself or your partner or not! Well made leather and solid hardware for the price. With four adjustable straps, this harness is designed to keep your partner’s package locked away until you decide they’ve earned their freedom. Cleaning Tip: Place plug in dishwasher or wash with antibacterial soap. Use Cavicide wipes on the rest.
21. Loop Ear Plugs
These quiet ear plugs are designed to reduce sound without completely canceling it out. Perfect for helping people who are neurodivergent or experience noise sensitivity. If you are someone who gets overwhelmed with all the sounds in a dungeon, try these to be more present in your scene. It’s not just for kink play, these are great for sporting events, concerts, or nightclubs! Cleaning Tip: Spray with Cavacide and wipe them down.
22. Silicone Tawse
This toy would be great for over the knee spankings as well as all other impact play positions. The handle can be used as an insertable as well so don’t forget about the many ways to use toys in your bag. Easily cleanable and extremely painful! This particular toy will surely create the marks you’re so desperately craving. Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes and make sure to get all the crevices.
23. Tazapper
In my opinion, this is a great beginner electro toy because it’s a quick zap. I really enjoy using it for mindfucks and fear play as well as toying with my bottom. I like to make them take it and tell them they need to zap themselves, usually their genitals because I’m a big sadist. The sound it creates will surely turn some heads while the sensation itself is fairly tame. The size of this item makes it easy to fit into toy bags. Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes.
I really like this specific binder because even if someone has sensitive nipples, you can still use it since the spikes only cover the areola. With leaving the nipple exposed, it allows for you to play with this extremely delicate and erogenous zone. The tiny spikes inside provide a nice little reminder of who is in control while combining beauty and pain. It does have potential to draw blood so be mindful of that if you plan to use it on multiple people. The leather strap is very durable. Cleaning Tip: Use Cavicide wipes carefully since it is very sharp and let air dry completely before next use. Use Leather Honey Care Kit after every 3rd use.
I hope you enjoyed this list. Please let me know if you want to see more in the future! Enjoy your playtime!!